Our daughter, Meghan, turned 21 a few weeks ago. Sadly, her birthday fell on Labor Day when friends and family were busy with outdoor barbecues and many bars and restaurants were closed for the holiday. Despite reaching the legal drinking age, she wasn’t really interested in bar hopping, and planned to come home for the weekend, grill steaks, and watch her beloved Nebraska football team win yet another season home opener, before celebrating with some friends Monday afternoon. Needless to say, not all went as planned.

On her way home from college, a high-pressure oil line suddenly burst and by the time she noticed what was happening and pulled off the Interstate at the first available exit, her car’s engine was fried! She pulled into none other than the Fantasy gas station between Omaha and Lincoln and we called AAA for a tow. While, she waited, she spotted this postcard and couldn’t resist!

An hour and a half later, she began her 21st birthday weekend riding in the cab of a semi-trailer which towed her dead car to Lincoln. Not exactly a stellar way to start her 21st!

We picked her up at the dealership Friday night and opted for dinner at one of our favorite Chinese restaurants. The next day, we took Meghan and my mom to the Husker game, where (sadly) Nebraska lost its home opener for the first time in nearly 30 years.

Praying things would only get better, Sunday, the three of us went to church and later enjoyed cooking a nice dinner together at home. Meghan went back to Omaha on Monday and celebrated her birthday at lunch with friends and spent the evening serving meals at a homeless shelter with the Christian Student Fellowship.

Maybe not the typical way most young adults celebrate their 21st … but the weekend’s events did make for a very memorable birthday. As parents, we couldn’t be more proud of a daughter who serves others, faces life’s obstacles in stride, and once in awhile, even sends us a  postcard.


  • Ann learned how to make #paella last week with @okcyndi and @thechefandthedish. Read all about how they Skyped with Chef Ana of @freshcookingspain to learn how to make this traditional Spanish dish.  Blog link in bio.  @olivesfromspain_canada @olivesfromspainindia @olivesfromspainuk @olivesfromspainusa @spain.info @latienda
  • We saw some amazing lights in the Philbrook area of Tulsa this week including this residence that covered more than a dozen trees in white lights. #tulsalights #tulsa #visitOK #christmaslights  #travel #travelblogger #postcardjar #midlife #oklahoma #explore
  • 🍺 🍺 🍺 From our visit to @pivobrewery and @bleptastudios in northeast Iowa were you can enjoy hand crafted beer and beer crafted art. ⁣New blog post all about in the link in our bio.
#craftbeer #instabeer #beer #cheers #drinkcraft #beerlife #beerlover #craftbeerlife #thisisiowa #artlover #craftbeerjunkie #drinklocal #craftbeersnob #beerpics #postcardjar @charlenecorsonselbee
  • Yes, we are thankful, grateful, and blessed. It was just the three of us this year - Steve, Ann, and our daughter, Meghan. We spent the morning cooking together and enjoyed a wonderful meal. Now it’s time for some football and maybe a piece of pie at halftime. Happy Thanksgiving, everyone. #thanksgiving #turkey #blessed
  • We're in love with the colors of fall in the #midwest. #midwestmoment #thisisiowa #postcardjar #midwesttravel #midwestisbest
  • Even in the off-season, Clear Lake, Iowa, is a wonderful place to visit. We were able to take one of the last #LadyoftheLake cruises before the paddle wheel boat was docked for the winter. #clearlake #thisisiowa # #postcardjar #smalltowns #MWTravel
  • Love wearing #turquoise this time of year. Found many beautiful pieces at The Buckin' Flamingo in #Pawhuska, OK. #silversmith #artisanjewelry #turquoiseoverdiamonds #handcraftedjewelry #turquoisejewelry #postcardjar #midlifetravel
  • The Butterfly Room at The Pioneer Woman Boarding House was just magical. Lots of light, comfy bedding, fresh roses, and warm cookies at bedtime. Oh, and did I mention there are two vanities and two toilets? Yes, we had an incredible stay. #postcardjar #luxurytravel #pawhuska #thepioneerwoman #luxurytraveler #oklahoma

Making the most of midlife.